Oh, I get handwaving, it's just there's only so much of it I can do. Teammate's magically the only one to find the video, sure! But not so much when the fic then proceeds to go completely off the rails re: not just the video but everything else until you're sitting there way overthinking how and why anyone is even closeted in a world in which everyone is deeply stupid, careless with their secrets and sex tapes, and goes around having gay orgies at the drop of a hat.