One one hand, that's completely unsurprising, but on the other hand sometimes I have to step back and be like, wait, what they are saying is completely not a reasonable or logical reaction. Like wtf, what is WRONG with you? It is genuinely difficult for me to imagine how so many guys could be so threatened by the idea that some woman somewhere has been hurt.

This isn't really an invitation for people to explain it to me. It's just really hard to understand sometimes, emotionally.