uh, i wasn't making a moral judgment? it's awkward trying to socialize in this fandom when people are being fannish and writing/reading dirtybadwrong stuff about the small handful of guys i actually kinda know as opposed to the thousands of guys i don't? i'm not interested in actively herding fandom away from these guys, and i wouldn't have the power to even if i did, but i don't think there's any harm in hoping it's just another fad people grow away from.