thank you for your swift and concise reply! that makes a lot of sense. i wonder how amab, masculine presenting people who have those same sorts of feelings but don't feel comfortable expressing it in that way regard themselves.
i think my lack of understanding (as in like comprehension not acceptance) is because i am just so stuck on the binary bc i feel so comfortable being cis that i can't really imagine what a third (or more) option would be? i probably just have to unequate masculine/man, feminine/woman and androgyny/somewhere in the middle. i just feel like im in math class again or something where its like 'yes i believe that this is the answer but no i don't understand the steps you took to get there'.
Re: Fandom Venting
thank you for your swift and concise reply! that makes a lot of sense. i wonder how amab, masculine presenting people who have those same sorts of feelings but don't feel comfortable expressing it in that way regard themselves.
i think my lack of understanding (as in like comprehension not acceptance) is because i am just so stuck on the binary bc i feel so comfortable being cis that i can't really imagine what a third (or more) option would be? i probably just have to unequate masculine/man, feminine/woman and androgyny/somewhere in the middle. i just feel like im in math class again or something where its like 'yes i believe that this is the answer but no i don't understand the steps you took to get there'.