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This is the sixth post of Deke Dangle RPF Anon, a community for all your ice hockey anon meme needs.

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Re: Fic Discussion! - Seafoam

From: (Anonymous)
which is their choice, and which means they presumably have a thick enough skin to make that choice

NNFs have no reason to expect that they'll be personally attacked or trolled and that has nothing to do with thick skin. This is a general purpose meme! If some random psycho sees that I ship Beau/Paul and goes to my twitter and then comes here to leave a comment about how BeauPaul 69 is a fat uggo n-word, and that shit showed up in my inbox, I would flip the fuck out. The kink meme trolling happened because someone didn't like Sid/Geno and they made fun of NNFs who were writing it, for gods sake.

If this were a hate meme like Supernatural has then I would agree that coming here would be risky business but holy shit this comm is mostly slash googles and hockey questions. The screened comments had nOTHIGN to do with the fics. People who replied got "oh so u luv irl rape huh" bullshit pushed back at them.

You shouldn't have to avoid a huge part of a small fandoms fannish space just because you were kind enough to share your fic/fanart/gifs/meta/headcanons. If you think that doing so puts a target on your back and makes you free game, so you should toughen up, that's just not how fandom works.

If you're a BNF then you come to expect it but hardly anyone in this fandom is a BNF, even people who wrote 100 fics, and middle name and NNFs with a few fics to their names shouldn't expect to have shit thrown their way. THAT'S why this fandom is so unwelcoming. Being a BNF sounds liek a horrible, no fun time for 90% of people and that you get BNF level wank and hate in this fandom even as a NNF/MNF is fucking terrifying and all the reason to GTFO.

Re: Fic Discussion! - Seafoam

From: (Anonymous)
DA

I have no idea what your point is. Nobody's saying that it's your fault for not having a thicker skin if a "random psycho" posts something that breaks meme rules. They're saying that the random psychos of the world are already being appropriately handled by the mods, and that if you want to reduce your chances of seeing it even further, don't track. Or if you do track, than yes, you need to have a thick enough skin to ignore random psychos, because no one in fandom is capable of cleaning out your inbox, but you.

Re: Fic Discussion! - Seafoam

From: (Anonymous)
+1