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Re: Things You Wouldn't Say Unanon

From: (Anonymous)
ayrt

I'm not sure how criticizing another anon means NOT being critical of Scrivens when the issue is you think they're downplaying something Scrivens did that shouldn't be downplayed (and was already addressed in a previous comment). But someone saying that "we are all always learning" and "he's trying," in order to minimize mistakes he made where he never showed any evidence of learning or trying whatsoever, is precisely one example of what I mean by acting like Scrivens' politics are more than they are, especially, re: the blackface, Scrivens has never been actively or vocally anti-racist. A disclaimer isn't necessary, but just not saying things like that in response to fuck ups would be a good start. Like, just say something like, "ok, he fucked up, I still value him being vocal about issues important to me when no other NHLers are." "He's trying his best" isn't a bland statement of opinion, it suggests that someone can't be better than they are when in fact they have room for improvement (as do we all), it invalidates criticism without addressing it. Just because someone's politics are better or closer to ours doesn't mean that they are trying any harder. Reading a wikipedia article and using that as a basis to talk authoritatively about blackface is not what I would call trying hard. If he were really trying that hard, wouldn't he listen to people who say he is talking over them, and even if he still disagrees, at least acknowledge they're bringing an important viewpoint that he doesn't have?

Re: Things You Wouldn't Say Unanon

From: (Anonymous)
And even if he is really "trying his best"... that's not an appropriate response to defend your fave when someone points out something they did that wasn't great. Aren't most of us just trying our best? That doesn't exempt anyone from having their mistakes pointed out, even well-intentioned ones.

Re: Things You Wouldn't Say Unanon

From: (Anonymous)
Honestly, I'd be more sympathetic of the "liking people doesn't require disclaimers" argument if people who gush endlessly about their perfect fav weren't so resistant when their fav does inevitably fuck up tbh.