#24 – Not Sure If Serious or Playing Dumba

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This is the twenty-fourth post of Deke Dangle RPF Anon, a community for all your ice hockey anon meme needs.

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Re: Things You Wouldn't Admit Unanon

[(Anonymous)]

Now THAT is a Paul Martin I would read in a heartbeat.

Re: Things You Wouldn't Admit Unanon

[(Anonymous)]

sa

Actually, I'm going to expand that. I just need way more emotional constipation in this fandom, and I don't mean broning where guys are too busy being bros to notice they're in a gay relationship. I don't even really mean stuff dealing with internalized homophobia. I just have a weakness for guys who don't have feelings because Real Men Don't Do That, but then end up having them anyway in some traumatic fashion.

Re: Things You Wouldn't Admit Unanon

[(Anonymous)]

Six days later, I am CPing the hell out of this into my inspiration folder, because you've hit on some stuff that I am both super tired of (The Bros Who Don't Realize What's Going On) and that I want more of: guys without feelings, who actually do have them.

SO MANY of the guys I know just have this...gaping absence in their lives when it comes to talking about feelings. Particularly about their wives/significant others. They just don't do it. And women tend to share that stuff a lot more, so it shows up in fic: all these dudes talking about their feelings.

And don't get me wrong. I LOVE a good adult conversation that gets at the heart of the conflict between characters, but I'm ready to slam that Repress/Deny/Ignore button, too. Because having legitimately emotionally constipated guys HAVE to work through something that they otherwise just wouldn't would be really satisfying to read/write.

Re: Things You Wouldn't Admit Unanon

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

I think part of it is that guys in hockey fic tend to pretty self-aware about their feelings, even if they don't dare talk about them, and I don't think that's always necessary or realistic characterization. Sometimes it doesn't even need to involve repress/ignore/deny on a conscious level because it's so instinctive.

Anyway, I am delighted to hear this, and I hope you find it a very inspirational line of thought! :)

Re: Things You Wouldn't Admit Unanon

[(Anonymous)]

I would read the shit out of Paul Martin being passive aggressive as fuck and Neal or Beau or whatever walking on eggshells whenever he says "hmm" in that particular tone of voice.